Joined: 13 Jun 06
17 Apr 07 9:48 pm
Traffic Travis is able to check backlinks to your site. It doesn't do it exactly the way you mentioned, but if you go to the Analyze Page tool and enter the page of your site that you wish to check, then click on the "Links" tab, TT will display all the links on that page, and tell you whether the links are reciprocated or not.
The Backlinks To Site tool does a similar thing... you enter your website and it'll display all links to your site, and whether or not they're reciprocated, among other things.
I'd try TT before splashing out on other software, it's free for you guys.