30 Jul 07 3:52 am
Glad you asked
here are some suggestions-
discover the source of the negativity
much of it can be internally generated ie ill never succeed,im too(lazy,fat,ugly,unmotivated,poor).the key to this one is to develop a counter attack.one method is to form a game plan and commit it to paper..make the goals achievable and do some physical act to reach them each day.This method works by giving you concrete proof that you can achieve results and reinforces your belief in yourself to succeed.
if indeed the negative feedback is coming from the outside...particularly
family or close loved ones realize in an odd way they may be communicating care and concern for you.they dont want to see you get "hurt".one trick to try -turn the situation to your advantage
ie "gee mom you sound concerned about me thanks for caring"
this makes a win /win for both of you.and u may find"mom" alot more helpfull in the future.
if it is true you have not felt successfull in your life yet...today is the perfect time to start afresh....find some new TOOLS to put to work in your life.
do a search for personal coaching or life coaching....perhaps with a focus on business....you'll find great free information and many resources to get you started.
thanks for the opportunity to be of service
best wishes on creating an abundant life!
2 parting tidbits
'if u can dream it you can do it"
and for those trying moments in life
"just like constipation this too shall pass,just sometimes it's harder than others" LOL :D
ps can y'all guess what my passion is... :lol: